Just Say Yes

A few weeks ago, I wrote a post about how people shouldn’t be afraid to say no. Now I’m wondering why people can’t just say yes. Example: Teenagers have gone nuts with the dating ritual. The other night while working, I heard a ruckus in front of my home. A peak out the window revealed three teenagers piling wheels on my front lawn. Perplexed, I wondered what was happening until I saw the sign: “Yes, I ‘wheel’ go to the dance with you.” Once informed that the person they were looking for didn’t live here anymore, they packed up their wheels, moving on to the right house, I assume.

The word yes is powerful all on its own. Why do we insist on wrapping it in a bunch of nonsense? Politicians are particularly skilled at avoiding a standalone “yes.”

Beyond the power of the word, “yes,” there’s also the potential of what can happen when one embraces the word. I was reminded of this when Chris Brogan pointed me to The Moth Podcast and the performance by Elna Baker, “Yes Means Yes?” (you can subscribe on iTunes). She explores what happens in her life when she starts saying, “yes,” and her experiences prove that life takes interesting turns when one looks for opportunities to say the magic word.

How much thought do we give to what we’re saying yes or no to? How much of our lives have we put on auto-pilot? Even more thought-provoking, why do we focus so much attention on areas that carry relatively little weight in the big scheme of things? Like the dating scenario I described earlier, when did asking for and agreeing to a something become so complicated? Why can’t we just say yes (or no)?


2 Responses to “Just Say Yes”

  1. April 30, 2008 at 9:16 am

    …reminds me of when I was in 8th grade and was asked by a girl friend to go to the dance with her…the ‘ask’ came in the form of a note with two check boxes, yes and no. I do believe though, that I gave the note back to her and said ‘yes’ out loud.

    …asking for something has always been complicated, at least for some.

  2. 2 Britt
    May 1, 2008 at 8:03 am

    @torbjornrive: I think George Strait wrote a country song about that very thing called “Check Yes or No.”

    I wonder what it is the complicates the asking. Frequently, in my case anyway, it’s sometimes fear that the answer won’t be the one I want.

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